习惯的模型 : dependent 依赖  -- independent 独立自主 --interdependent  互相依赖

1: be  proactive 主动积极

    what you can do 

2：begin with the end in mind  以终为始

3 ：put first things first 要事为一

     不能管理时间，便什么都不能管理- 德鲁克。  80/20法则

4： think win 双赢思维 

      买卖不成仁义在

5：知彼解已  to understand then be 

one should seek to be understand then to be understood.

empathy 同理心

6, synergize  综合综效

    团队 如何看待差异  和而不同 success

7, 不断更新 sharpen the saw

from now on ,start yourself

4 Whys For Ture Success

great achieve of 8 winning hibits

1 find and do what you love to do

2  create an inspring vision and start moving towards it 

3 remember there is no failure,only feedback

4 look for opportunities always and everywhere

5  make decisions quickly

6 learn continually

7 strive to make people happier

8 Never Give Up

seven habits of highly effective people 高效能人士的七个习惯